According to Wikipedia, “A pet peeve is a
minor annoyance that an individual identifies as particularly annoying to a
greater degree than others may find it.” You may get annoyed when driving and
someone tailgates. Or you may get annoyed at the supermarket or a doctor’s
office because people are using their cell phones and yelling. Or you may get
annoyed when a telemarketer calls your house during dinner. These may be
examples of your day-to-day pet peeves, but what about social media? Do you
have any social media pet peeves?
As the social media landscape has grown,
both in the number of networks and the number of users, it’s natural to develop
some minor annoyances. Here’s a list of my “Top 10” social media pet peeves:
[1] LinkedIn: When someone sends an
invitation to connect but doesn’t customize the invitation. Who wants to
receive a generic “I’d like to add you to my network” message? What if you
never met the person in person or online? Shouldn’t a reason for connection be
provided, or at the very least, some reference to a mutual acquaintance?
[2] Facebook: It seems as if the
designers want to re-design the site on a regular basis. Can’t they be
satisfied with anything they design? Settings have to be reviewed, users have
to become comfortable with the changes, and above all, users have to spend time
(that most don’t have) to improve the presentation of their pages and/or content.
[3] All major sites: Once a site makes a significant upgrade or design change, other sites follow. Now,
many sites have similar user interfaces. What happened to unique design
elements? Doesn’t any site want to look unique anymore?
[4] Twitter: When users send automatic
direct messages (DMs). This goes against the entire concept of being social and
participating in conversations.
[5] Twitter: #Highlighting #every #word
in a #sentence with a #hashtag. The concept of a hashtag is to focus attention
on one or two words for search purposes and emphasis. The excessive use of
hashtags accomplishes nothing.
[6] Twitter Retweets: When users retweet
every tweet that features them. While everyone appreciates positive comments,
constant self-promotion turns people off. Another annoyance is when users ask for
their tweets to be retweeted. Naturally, we’d all like our tweets to appeal to
everyone, but it’s annoying when a tweet ends with: “Please RT.”
[7] Foursquare: When users announce that
they’re at the post office, the coffee shop, the gas station, etc. If you want
to meet someone, use the phone, speak to them, and make plans. Don’t expect
them to surprise you at the gas station just because they happen to be nearby.
[8] Facebook and Twitter: Lack of an
avatar. When users have the Twitter default egg image or the Facebook default white
head on blue background image, it’s clear that the person has no intention of
participating in social media. He/she might be a member of Witness Protection,
and then he/she shouldn’t participate in social media anyway.
[9] All networks: When users post the
same content on Facebook, Google Plus, LinkedIn, and a shorter version on
Twitter. The platforms are different. A person may be connected to different
people on each network. Some may use Facebook for personal connections,
LinkedIn for professional connections, and Google Plus for a variety separated by circles.
[10] All networks: Users who don’t
understand the concept of engagement and
focus on selling their products or services rather than on conversations.
Did your social media pet peeve make the
list? If not, please chime in.
A final note: a big “thank you” to some
amazing Social Media Masterminds (#socialMM on Twitter) for sharing their pet
peeves. They can be found on my Twitter List here.